All of them were
happy to wish me a merry Christmas, happy holiday and happy new year and SIGN
THEIR NAME to a card that encouraged me to say thank you for “their service”
this holiday season. Translation: “give
me money because I serve you all year”
In this “content marketing effort”, all of
these service providers delivered a non commercial message with the intention
of strengthening our relationship which they hoped would lead to a value
exchange (send a check for Christmas).
The problem comes
down to this; these guys missed the whole relationship building process. I mean the whole thing!! There’s no
introduction, cultivation or progression of a relationship with content moving
things along. None, just “give me money.”
Maybe if these
guys would have sent me some information every couple of months or sent me
jokes or inspirational quotes, I would have had a feeling that they were at least
TRYING to build a relationship. Maybe if
they would have done that, I would send them more than I am planning to send.
Maybe you do the
same thing. Take this holiday season for
instance. Did you start your big “ASK”
in October or so – having not communicated with these corporate types since
last October? This eleventh hour effort
is easy to spot. It’s a BIG ASK out of
the blue – not built upon a series of communications LEADING UP to the BIG ASK. Maybe that's why you didn't get as many sales as you could have IF you had worked on that relationship all year.
So the next time
you need a sale, think about these three elements. Heck, cut this out and put it over your desk.
1. Start
sharing information well before you need the sale to happen; if you need the sales in December,
start talking to the prospect in May or June.
2.
Repeat your effort multiple times.
- One Contact Does Not = One Sale.
- One Contact Does Not Even = One Awareness!!!”
3. Stay
with the program. Never stop communicating. Never stop building and nurturing
relationships.
As the Beatles used to say about
relationships, “It Don’t Come Easy.” If
it did, it wouldn't be worth much and neither party would get much out of it.